There comes a moment—not marked by drama or grand revelation, but by a stillness so profound it’s almost invisible—when something shifts.

It may follow years of searching or lifetimes of suffering. It may arrive in the wake of a breakdown or during a quiet walk beneath a gray sky. It isn’t made by the mind, though the mind will eventually catch up. It’s not a decision driven by logic, fear, or desire.

It’s deeper than all of that.

It’s The Choice.

“I choose to live. I choose to stay. I choose to be here, as I Am.”


Not a Spiritual Goal—A Turning Inward

Many who encounter The Choice believe it’s about becoming more spiritual. More disciplined. More “good.”
But it isn’t that.
It isn’t about self-improvement or finally “figuring it out.”
It’s something far more subversive—more radical in its softness.

The Choice is the moment you stop running from yourself.

You stop chasing the idea of enlightenment, of fixing your karma, of being good enough, holy enough, healed enough. You stop giving your energy to external teachers, systems, or saviors.

And you begin to breathe—truly breathe—with the part of you that’s always been waiting.

Not for you to change.

But for you to receive.

There is a moment when the breath becomes the choice.


The End of Seeking, The Beginning of Allowing

The irony is that you often come to The Choice right when you feel most exhausted—
when the spiritual journey has yielded no final peace,
when even your carefully curated identity feels paper-thin.

The Dragon, the one the shows all that stands in your way, may have arrived.
Old wounds may be erupting.
Everything may seem to be unraveling.

But beneath it all, a quiet invitation rises:

“You can stop trying to save yourself now. You already are.”

And that’s the real shift.

  • From doing to allowing.
  • From effort to presence.
  • From seeking a path to becoming the path.

Energy Begins to Serve You

One of the quiet miracles of The Choice is that your energy starts to reorganize.
Not because you’ve earned it.
But because you’ve stopped fighting it.

Things that once drained you lose their grip.
Aspects once stuck in cycles of guilt or shame begin to dissolve.
The Breath becomes a friend, not a technique.

Life softens.
You soften.

You realize—maybe for the first time—you no longer need to figure it out.

Because something within you already knows.


The Choice Is Not a One-Time Event

The Choice may happen in a flash, but it deepens over time.

You may find yourself revisiting it again and again—not because it didn’t “work,”
but because each return brings a fuller embodiment.

Sometimes you’ll forget.
You’ll fall into old fears.
You’ll get caught in the noise of the world.

But you’ll remember faster.
You’ll breathe deeper.
And each time you do, The Choice becomes more embodied—
not as an idea, but as your living reality.


A Closing Reflection

If you’ve made The Choice—consciously or not—you already know.

There’s a steadiness now, even amidst the chaos.
A new clarity.
A sense that you’re no longer fighting for your place here.
You’re simply being—fully, freely, unmistakably here.

“I choose to be here, in my fullness.
No longer seeking, no longer hiding.
I choose to live as I Am.”

And from here, everything begins to shift—not by force, but through grace.


This is not about becoming better; it’s about remembering who you are.

— Tobias of the Crimson Circle