As we deepen our awareness, we begin to notice the dance of energies around us—how they move, interact, and impact our sense of self. This is what Tobias refers to as the “sexual energy dynamics,” a profound teaching about energetic boundaries and sovereignty. And while it’s not about physical sexuality, it’s all about the exchange of energy: how we give it away, how we take it in, and how we can become more sovereign.

One of the most eye-opening realizations on this journey is recognizing when and how we’ve been giving our energy away. It often happens subtly and when we least expect it, leaving us feeling drained or disoriented. But this isn’t about blame or victimhood. In fact, the concept of victimhood is one we release as we become more aware.

You see, in our old, unconscious state, we’re easily swayed by every wind of doctrine, as if we’re at the mercy of forces beyond our control. Yet in this new consciousness, we understand there are no victims. We see clearly how old energies operate, and in this clarity, we step into our true power.